Therefore be imitators of God, as beloved children; and walk in love, just as Christ also loved you and gave Himself up for us, an offering and a sacrifice to God as a fragrant aroma (Eph 5:1-2 NAS95). Having instructed the Ephesians to walk in their new life, Paul now gives them the motivation that makes that possible. He tells them to walk in love. We are to imitate Christ’s love, a sacrificial love. We have come to know and have believed the love which God has for us. God is love, and the one who abides in love abides in God, and God abides in him. By this, love is perfected with us, so that we may have confidence in the day of judgment; because as He is, so also are we in this world. There is no fear in love; but perfect love casts out fear, because fear involves punishment, and the one who fears is not perfected in love. We love, because He first loved us (1Jn 4:16-19 NAS95). If you can learn to trust in God’s love for you, you will have no problem imitating His love. Once...
Let him who stole steal no longer, but rather let him labor, working with his hands what is good, that he may have something to give him who has need. Let no corrupt word proceed out of your mouth, but what is good for necessary edification, that it may impart grace to the hearers. And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, by whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, clamor, and evil speaking be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you (Eph 4:28-32 NKJV). One way to live your new life in Christ is to do the opposite of your old life. Combat the flesh with reverse behavior. If you used to steal, give. If you were abusive with your mouth, learn to edify others with your speech. If you were full of malice, practice being kindhearted. Do not grieve the Holy Spirit, but follow His promptings to live a holy life. Instead of trying to stop doing the sin...